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Do Coaches Need Coaches (Part 2): No and Maybe

6/2/2020

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Last week I shared how coaches can become better coaches by hiring their own coach! But that’s not always the case. Sometimes it’s not the right time for coaches to hire a coach. 

The main reason being maybe you have too many “cooks in the kitchen” and are working with enough other counselors or business advisors already. If you do, that’s awesome! I have many clients who have advisors or counselors, as well as me. As long as they are helping you get ahead in all the areas of your business and your life. Otherwise get the support of a coach.

I’ve had clients come to me and after hearing their story and goals, I sometimes suggest seeing a career consultant. For example, I had a woman come to me and say, “I know you work with business owners, and I want to move my business forward. I want to bring someone in to have a partnership on this business. And perhaps start a direct sales company.” In this case I suggested that what she actually needed right now was a business advisor.

To best help this client, I referred an advisor that I personally knew, liked, and trusted so she was able to get the legal strategy and the agreements that she needed. 
In another example: I sadly knew five women who lost their husbands to cancer this past year. It’s heartbreaking and I simply can’t imagine what that’s like. 

I was able to refer some of these women to a client of mine who was a grief counselor. In this case these women didn’t need my services as a life coach because they really needed processing time and space to mourn the loss of their spouse.. 
As a coach myself, I help others find their own answers, but I know that sometimes you just need to be told what to do, right? Sometimes you just need a coach, and other times you need to be taught or told what to do. 

For example, right now I’ve got different people teaching me:
  • Facebook Ads and Groups
  • How to develop my cash flow processes and predictions
  • How to grow my speaking business
  • And how to grow my online programs. 
I wouldn’t call any of these people my “coaches”. They are my consultants, mentors, and advisors. No matter what your business, you need to decide if what you need is coaching, or just someone to tell you what to do. That's the key!

Maybe, coaches need coaches
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Click here to And the final argument for whether coaches need coaches is for the “Maybe” crowd.

First, ask yourself these questions:
  • Do I have a fixed mindset that says: I can't grow? 
  • Do I not want to put any effort into it right now?
  • Do I feel on top of my game now?
If you’re not in the right mindset and not willing to make changes, coaching won’t benefit you. If you want to stay with a fixed mindset, you don’t need a coach right now. If you want a growth mindset, then definitely get a coach because they can help you move into that direction and stay consistent with it, so that you can see that continuous effort equals mastery. 

I know many coaches who are committed to their craft. They achieved the right ICF (International Coaching Federation) approved certification and still they’re not ready to learn more. They think they are where they need to be. That is their choice, but it’s the fixed mindset and it can catch up to them.  Plus for all of the reasons I mentioned for “yes” gets lost when they’re unwilling to keep growing.

What do you think Diane?

I believe that I think no matter what industry you're in, there's always room for improvement. There's always a way to adapt. I like to say, “When you stop learning, you stop earning”. 

What do I ultimately think? Well, there are way more reasons and benefits to the YES crowd. Ultimately, it comes down to why someone needs a coach. I’ve had fantastic personal and business success working with my coaches and I believe everyone in the world could benefit from having coaches, consultants, mentors, and teachers in their lives. 

I also don’t believe that once you’ve had one coach, you’re done. Try different coaches with different levels and types of expertise and methods for coaching. Some coach heavily on mindset, others on dealing with loss, others on life-balance, process coaching, and so many more niches. 

Many coaches can coach you through any situation, but they often have a niche specialty, and you need to jive with the coach and coaching style to see the best results.

Do YOU need a coach now?

If you’re curious whether you need a coach or advisor, I offer a no-obligation conversation to help you determine this.  

If I’m your best fit for a coaching relationship, then we can work together. If not, I’m happy to refer you to others who may be a better fit. Book a 15-minute chat at dianerolston.youcanbook.me 

Until next time, stay dynamic!
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9/20/2021 01:07:27 am

It’s so hard to know what to do, I can’t stress the importance of having a Mentor enough! My Lisnic Mentor saved me from making so many stupid mistakes, I don’t know how my company would’ve survived without one.

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9/20/2021 01:08:40 am

Great article Diane. It’s so hard to know what to do, I can’t stress the importance of having a Mentor enough! My Lisnic Mentor saved me from making so many stupid mistakes, I don’t know how my company would’ve survived without one.

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